Stuck in a Sex Rut? Here’s How to Get Yourself Out of It!

For most people, sex leaves plenty of room for innovation and improvement. But, even so, many still struggle to find the most suitable tools to make relevant changes to their sex lives. If your bedroom practices have become somewhat a bore; there are a few efficient ways to reboot and reinforce your skills.

With that being said; let’s look at 6 ways to help you reinforce your sex life and bring it back to its former shine!

1. Small Changes Have the Most Effect

It might not seem like it;but making small changes into your lovemaking style will definitely make a difference for you! Spicing things up doesn’t always mean going the distance in revamping your sex practices entirely. To the contrary, it is best that you start small and build your bedroom reputation one step at a time. Some of the most effective changes you can do for starts include:

  • Change the most common ‘sex’ times. If you are a night owl, give morning sex a chance, or vice versa!
  • Try having sex in an entirely different room or setting. If your home is not inspiring enough, book a hotel room and enjoy the chance of scenery!
  • Bring in a pillow. Sex pillows and regular ones are a great tool for additional support during sex and can provide more enjoyment; a deeper penetration as well as more sexual comfort.
  • Don’t keep your sex affairs at the same length. If you are a fan of quickies; now is the time to do through-and-through sex session with all elements added to it. If you are, say, more of a sensual lover, switch things up by having a raunchy on-the-go or outdoor adventure!

2. The ‘Banned’ List

One of the most fruitful ways to change things up in the bedroom is to let go off practices that don’t serve you anymore. For instance, if you are keen on the missionary position (or any other), try going a month without doing it. In addition, set up a few rules about the kinds of toys you will be using, the locations of your future sex escapades and make mutual orgasms a thing!

Whatever it is that is holding you back from having a spectacular sex life- put it on the ‘banned’ list for a while and explore other approaches. 

3. Turn Your ‘Maybes’ into ‘Yeses’

Albeit it is not the easiest to get outside your comfort zone, a quality sexual experience requires a little adjusting. That said, don’t exclude the ‘maybe’ fantasies out of your repertoire. If you are still hesitating trying new things in bed; it is time you let go of the chains that are withholding you from a great experience.

And, while you don’t have to do all ‘maybes’ on your list of fantasies; sometimes it is necessary to experiment before you are rewarded. At the end of the day, it is true what they say about secret pleasures- don’t knock it ‘till you try it!

Source: https://www.bustle.com/articles/83221-6-ways-to-make-sex-more-interesting-when-youre-in-a-longterm-relationship

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